I had a lot of problems before the course. I still have a few problems left, I will admit. But my biggest problem was that I didn’t know what I should be doing to be considered an elegant lady. There are so many resources out there. There are videos and articles and podcasts and all these things that I’ve consumed that told me about if I followed what they outlined that I should be more respected in society, and I should look a lot better and feel better about myself. But every time I tried with those things, I would fail miserably. I felt like a lot of it was out of my reach.
So for me to share the results, I want to break it up into a few categories. The first is my appearance. I definitely have a better understanding of what makes someone look elegant and what doesn’t. I used to do all sorts of pairings. I’m an artist, and I’d be really creative with my appearance because it gets you a lot of attention in this industry. But it wasn’t getting me a lot of respect. So learning what a respectable person looks like and how they pair their clothes, what fabric they choose and why they select certain cuts, and what’s good for my body type and what colors I should be wearing. All of that I did not know. And learning that has definitely helped improve the way people see me. My family is another thing. My family is sort of dressing a little bit differently, and they’ve also started communicating differently with each other. So, one thing I learned is how to be kind in a classy way. And I have really emulated that with my family because I want that to be the standard, not just for myself, but for those around me. And my family has started arguing less and trying to watch our words. And also we’re kinder to each other, which I really love. I did not expect that at all.
Another change is my speech. I’m a lot clearer and more intentional with my words, I think before I speak, and I have a better vocabulary with the words that I choose.
And another big thing is my own self-esteem and self-respect. So I have started realizing that the way that I see some people acting in public is because they’re being strategic. They treat themselves, and they act in a way that shows people how they want to be treated.
I will say that my biggest result was my confidence. That because I was more aware of the surroundings, I was more confident going up to people. And with the advice I have from Anna on the kind of approach and the kind of things to say, it’s made it a lot easier to spark a conversation. So the fact that I can have longer and stronger conversations is probably my biggest result. I recommend it to people who are serious. The second you know that this is what you want to do, and this is how you want to live. And this is the kind of why you want it for yourself, then that’s the time for you to join the course.